A lump in the oatmeal

You know when you get in a fight with you best friend, and you didn't see it coming, and you don't understand, and it feels like you got punched in the stomache because you want to understand and you really hate to fight and at first you were confused but now your angry and now you want to call and really fight but your husband says to let it rest till he gets home ,so you do, and how you really love this person and just want to hug her and strangler her at the same time, and how you hope it gets resolved fast and things get back to normal so you can go to the park and have coffee and donuts again soon. Yea I know that feeling.